Passionate Love Making Tips

Passionate lovemaking may seem like a far off memory that only occurred for some when they were young teenagers full of unfulfilled sexual energy. Now, you’ve grown up. You’ve started a family and a career. You have other obligations to take care of. Your life may seem great until you realize that you can no longer have passionate love with your partner anymore. Here is some common passionate lovemaking tips that almost any couple can use. Lovemaking Tip 1: Surprise your significant other. If your wife is cooking breakfast one morning, come up behind her and slowly begin nibbling her earlobe. This sudden, unexpected affection can make your loving making experience as wonderful as ever. Women can do this too. If your husband is watching a sports event on TV, sit down beside him and begin rubbing his thigh slowly. He will quickly forget that it is second and three to go, and will turn his attention towards you. Lovemaking Tip 2: Set the mood. Lighting scented candles around your bedroom can be a very easy way of setting the mood. Also, put on some passionate love music. Make a mix CD with you and your lovers favorite love tracks and play it on a loop. You don’t want to interrupt what you’re doing to go and change the disk. Bring in a bottle of champagne with two slim glasses. You can also bring fruit into the bedroom to help arouse partners. Apples and bananas typically don’t work. Try a bowl of cherries or chocolate covered strawberries. If you don’t have fruit on hand, try just plain chocolate, nature’s aphrodisiac. Lovemaking Tip 3: Appreciate each other. You cannot have passionate sex with anyone that you cannot stand the sight of. Compliment your partner on a daily basis for little things. Men should tell women that they like their new hairstyle or pair of shoes. Women should tell men that they look good or that they have lost a few pounds off that fat tire. After all, who would want to sleep with someone if they are not sure if their partner is attracted to them? Lovemaking Tip 4: Know when to have sex. As stated earlier, unexpected sex can be great but how do you jazz up guaranteed sex? Birthdays, anniversaries, promotions, or even make up sex after a fight can be great love making experience. Some people decide to put of that set of intercourse for another day because of many reasons. Do not do that. If it’s your birthday, have sex that day. Don’t put it off. In fact, putting off a love making session only puts off pleasure. Passionate lovemaking can be achieved in these four easy steps. If these tips do not help you have more passionate love making, try something of your own. Don’t be afraid to ask around to family, friends and neighbors. They can be more helpful than you would think.

Lovemaking Tips for Newly Married Women

8 Lovemaking Tips (in addition to 500 found in the great book!) Over time, something happens to us – women, that is. It happens so slowly that we don’t recognize it until long after we’ve fallen victim to the trap. With marriage, busy lives full of children, obligations, priorities and other activities soon follow. With all of these other activities, it’s difficult to find a place for lovemaking tips. Too often, married woman view it as something they participate in to keep their husbands happy or “just another chore”. Ladies, it’s time to break with tradition and start making love for the pure joy of it and not out of obligation. Here are some simple steps to breaking with the female perspective on lovemaking and joining the millions of men who can’t be wrong! 1. BE IN THE NOW Men have an amazing ability to completely abandon all other thoughts and focus entirely on the act at hand, whether it is football or lovemaking. On the other hand, women are masters of multi-tasking, frequently lying there thinking about the laundry sitting in the dryer getting wrinkled, the check they need to write before school tomorrow to cover the kids' lunch accounts, and numerous other random thoughts that are necessary to keep a family running smoothly. Your bed is not the place to multitask. Men have an innate ability to be in the now. The next time you are having making love, instead of thinking about last night's PTA meeting or tomorrow’s Bunco game, narrow your focus (just for now) on the part of your body that your partner is focusing on. You'll find your pleasure will double immediately. 2. IT’S BETTER TO GIVE THAN TO RECEIVE A man gets turned on by pleasuring you. A man gets turned on by watching you. Have you ever considered that if the roles were reversed, the same principle would be true? Have you ever considered that pleasuring your man can turn you on, too? Open your eyes during the act and you can bet that whatever you give will be returned – with interest. 3. IT'S NOT ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK Even when you're having one of those self-proclaimed "fat days", your partner hasn't noticed. Your vagina does not get fat just because you might be retaining a little bit of water around your midsection. Your lover doesn't care that you are retaining water or that you ate that extra slice of pizza. When a woman feels sexy, she is apt to experience more enjoyment during lovemaking. 4. NEVER GIVE UP A man never begins the journey into sex without following it through all the way to completion (whether you are still awake or not). Persistence, persistence, persistence. Women would be wise to follow this advice. You have permission to have an orgasm each and every time (with or without the help of batteries). Climaxing is every man and woman's right. Men know this and you should, too. 5. IT'S "OK" TO GET DIRTY As boys, men grew up knowing that it was okay to splash in the rain puddle and make mud pies. As adults, that often translates to the bedroom. It's not just about being kinky, I'm talking about something much more mundane. Soon after moving in with my husband, I noticed he always wanted to do it the day I changed the sheets. One woman I know explained this as a man's way of marking his territory. I’ve never figured out if it’s the smell of the fabric softener or his animal instinct, but I can bet on a great night of lovemaking just by changing the sheets. 6. TAKE THE LEAD, NOW AND THEN Don't make your husband be the one to come over to your side of the bed all of the time. There’s a lot going on over on his side. Take a trip over there. Men can be incredibly turned on not only by a woman who initiates the act, but one who takes the lead throughout. 7. TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT You have permission to tell your man what you want in the bedroom (and I'm not talking about paint color, here). You simply cannot expect a man to know where and how to touch you. First of all, he's never had the parts that you have. Secondly, our bodies change, particularly after having children. Things that worked last year, may not work today. Thinks that worked yesterday, may not work today. Much as you would like him to be, your man is not a mind-reader. Tell him what you want. Tell him what you turns you on. If you don't know what that is, tell him and let him explore. You'll both enjoy that safari! 8. GET A LOCK ON THE BEDROOM DOOR With a bedroom door that is securely locked, visitors with little feet (whether of the human or animal form) can't walk in unexpectedly even if they hear unfamiliar noises. And, you'll be able to relax knowing you won't be interrupted at the most inopportune time.