Best Lovemaking Position III

The Best Position for Lovemaking Enjoy the Enjoyable If you don't find the missionary position satisfying, you may need to fine-tune it. One or two hard pillows under your hips, tipping your pelvis up for deeper penetration, can make all the difference. Your husband can ride high or low, leaning back to watch or forward to whisper and kiss. You can straighten your legs to create more tension or spread them wide or, if you're fit, wrap them around his waist or put one or both over his shoulders. He can hold your arms above your head or, still with your arms above your head, you can grip the headboard and thrust back at him. (Who said the missionary position had to be submissive?) He can lean to one side so you can caress each other's genitals. To guarantee even deeper penetration with the missionary position, New York psychiatrist Avodah Offit, M.D., author of The Sexual Self, suggests a slight variation: "Pull your knees up to your chest, then spread them just wide enough for your husband to get between them. With your calves on either side of his back, support his weight on the backs of your thighs. If you want to move you can rock back and forth with him." The advantage of this lovemaking position, says Dr. Offit, "is that you don't have to be particularly supple. Taking his weight in this way also gives you some control, and orgasm is easier because penetration is deeper than if your legs are straight or out to the sides." But, she cautions, "you do have to be shaped for it." Some couples just aren't built to fit for this. "There's no one prescription."You're most likely to get maximum benefit from the missionary position if you start practicing those old Kegels again. "Kegel exercises alone can aid orgasm," says Dr. Offit. "Or you can bear down, pressing your vaginal lips and clitoris toward the man's body." Even better, she suggests, is doing the two movements together, which tightens the whole of the vagina.

Best Lovemaking Position II

Love Making Position A Girl's Best Friend Of all positions, this is the most aesthetic. You don't have to be self-conscious about your body because most of it is covered by your husband's. And, for women anyway, there's no performance anxiety. This is a position for making love everyone knows how to do. Lying on your back with nothing on your mind other than, say, how that stain got on the ceiling, you're in the ideal position to unwind and enjoy yourself. As my friend Angela remarks, "I find it easier to have an orgasm in that sexual position, because I'm more relaxed. With the others I'm constantly thinking about what I should be doing." It's the perfect position for the coy, the shy or the just plain lazy. "I can concentrate on me," says another friend, Cindy. Think of it this way: Do you look better leaning over your husband with your stretch marks glistening and everything drooping and jiggling - or reclining with your face turned up, lips parted expectantly and your hair arranged over a bank of snowy white pillows? The missionary position is feminine; it's alluring. And don't try telling me that it's not erotic. Arch your back, give your husband your best "Come get me" look and just watch that man move. Some women, however, are put off by the position's simplicity. If just anyone can do it, they don't want to. And its name doesn't do it any favors either, as it was reportedly introduced by missionaries to inhabitants of the old European empires as a "respectable" position - a history unlikely to make you paralyzed with lust. No other lovemaking position makes you feel so loving, affectionate and close to your partner. Face-to-face you can kiss and explore each other. You can watch the expressions on his face - an erotic experience in itself - and your hands are free to caress or grip him tight. The missionary position is also the most comforting to finish in - you're cuddling already, for heaven's sake. "It's boring," says Lora, who clearly never wrestled with some of the missionary's variations. "Sideways-facing positions or being on top gives him better access to all my important parts." "Being on top makes me feel aggressive, which is erotic," says Rachel. And some women, says Shirley Zussman, Ed.D., a New York sex and marital therapist, may feel pinned down in the missionary. "They're not as free to move around as they are in other love making positions."

Best Lovemaking Position I

Lovemaking Position Stimulating G-Spot This lovemaking tip for position is relaxed, easy and - if you get it right - it can also be the most satisfying. Let me say here and now, without shame or blush, that I like the missionary position. Lovemaking while lying on your back with your husband on top is familiar, comfortable. It's the meat loaf and mashed potatoes of the sex manual. If you're hungry, it fills you up; if you're tired, you can still manage a morsel. Beluga caviar it ain't, but like a Quarter Pounder with cheese, you know how it's going to look, how it's going to taste and how long it will take to eat. And if you want to make it fancy, you can always add fries and a salad. Overnight, lying on your back was OUT. If you wanted to be cool and empowered, you had to get out from under and take control, or throw away your chances of the Big O forever. But are we having more or better orgasms with the wealth of lovemaking positions we've cricked our necks and twisted our limbs to get into? Has our athleticism and improvisation improved the quality of our lovemaking? A reconsideration... At one time the missionary position was sex. As a kid, if I read about sex or glimpsed a love scene on TV before my parents switched channels, that was the position the couple was in -- the man on top, the woman gazing up at him adoringly. But then came the '70s. The hemlines went down and women went up. Indeed, woman-on-top was virtually compulsory, and anyone who didn't have a sexual repertoire to rival the Kama Sutra had to hang her head in shame. Feminists and sex experts united in the view that the missionary position made a woman passive and subservient to her man. And no wonder we didn't always climax - in that position the clitoris probably wasn't stimulated, and neither was the G-spot!

Lovemaking Positions to get pregnant

Lovemaking Positions when you want a child There are a number of things that you can do to increase your chances of conception. Best Positions to get pregnant The man-on-top position works well when trying to conceive. Place a small pillow under your hips following intercourse so that your cervix basically rests in the pool of semen for a short time (perhaps 20 minutes or so). This will allow the sperm time to easily swim up through the cervix. (Important Note: Do not use a large pillow, or you may sabotage your efforts, since the sperm may then puddle behind your cervix. Not a good place to be when trying to reach that egg.) If you have a tipped uterus, you may have better luck having intercourse from behind (hands and knees position). By having intercourse in this position it allows the sperm better access to the cervix. Positions to Avoid (lovemaking positions wich reduce chance of getting pregnant) For most women it makes sense to avoid straddling their partner while making love - woman-on-top, sitting or standing - since this can cause the semen to leak and may result in fewer sperm making their way to the egg.

Leaked Chapter from 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets

Here are just a few of the tips you will enjoy in 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets: * An item in the frozen food section that will send shivers up and down your mates body in a very surprising way * Something in your toiletry bag which doubles as an amazing lovemaking toy * 2 novel ways to use mirrors in lovemaking that you probably never heard of * Something in your children's toy chest that can liven up the act * Find out what month is a guy's testosterone peak * A great way to invigorate someone who is too tired for sex * What colored light bulbs will intensify orgasms * How to get firmer erections and prevent premature ejaculation without medicines * The two things done in combination that will blow his mind * A sexy lubrication tip that will have him begging for it each time * What food and drink you should avoid the 24 hours before making love to avoid unpleasant odors * One simple trick to make your wife scream in delight like never before * Which smells can instantly increase penile blood flow by up to 40% * Where and how to touch your guy when he is about to orgasm that will have him shoot off like a firecracker (even he probably doesn't know this trick) * Ways to use your mouth on her that will drive her absolutely wild * Something to do with your hands when you are entering her that will excite her even more

A Precaution to ALL Men

She says, "Don't wear a condom today, I want to feel you inside me. It feels a lot better without the condom." You respond, "Aren't you worried that you might get pregnant?" "No, it's okay, I've been on the Pill for a while." "Oh, in that case, I'm all up for that!" This is probably the kind of conversation you'd like to have with your lover. But watch out, what you don't know could harm you. I'm not talking about the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases, you should already know about these. I'm talking about your lover's secret agenda. the female animal "...she is a hunter and a gatherer...for the perfect man." This phrase probably excites you right? It shouldn't. In fact, it should send shivers down your spine. What am I talking about? I'm talking about the crazy things that some women do, to keep their men trapped in a relationship. We all know that with women desperate times call for desperate measures. Especially in a competitive world, where the supply of really good men is scarce. How low is the supply of perfect men? So low that some women will resort to the following, in order to get the perfect man: 1. Steal their best friend's lover away. 2. Try to seduce a married man. 3. Keep him away from the influence of his buddies. 4. Keep him chained up in the basement of her house. 5. Try to convert a gay man back to being heterosexual. 6. Her last resort...the secret agenda. Women are always on the lookout for men, but not just any ordinary man, the mythical perfect man. Once they've found that godly figure, they'll do anything to keep him, and never let him go. her secret agenda How can she do this? With her last resort, the red alarm nuclear button ; get pregnant. Now you're probably laughing, but it happens more often than you think. In fact, this article is inspired by what happened to a buddy of mine. To make a long story short, my friend was dating a woman for a few months. According to him, she wasn't marriage material, but the sex was good, so he decided to stay with her until he found better (yes, I know its not a very nice thing to do). When she realized that they were not going to last very long, she suggested that she go on the Pill. My friend, being a trusting person, had no objectives. Her secret motive was to keep him forever by having his child. So as you probably guessed, she forgot to take the pill. Side note, in order for birth control pills to be effective, they must be taken daily, no exception. Two months later she announced the news to my friend; she was pregnant. Guess what? She wasn't surprised at all. Hmm, I wonder why? The result was that my friend lost the bright future that lay ahead of him. He took responsibility, and decided to marry her (hear the cellar door closing?). One year later, they're separated. The person that will suffer the most in this horrible messtheir adorable child. your secret agenda When men search for women to date, they also look for that perfect person. When men meet women, the women are usually classified into the marriage type , or the casual type . This decision is usually based on how easy it was to get her into bed. If she's the marriage type , than good for him. He'll be making love to someone special. If she's the casual type , he'll have sex with her until someone better comes along. My advice to you here is to always use protection when having sex with the casual type. You cannot trust her word on such an important matter. Remember, it's your life too. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you don't love? If you are with that special marriage type , you take a chance, and trust that she is taking the Pill on a daily basis. If she gets pregnant, at least you'll be with someone you truly care for. Whatever the case may be, it is important that you know that a child is never to blame for the mistakes that consenting adults make. So the next time you hear, don't use a condom, I'm on the Pill , remember the chance that you're taking with her possible secret agenda.

30 Love making tips from women

Share your deepest fantasies with each other. Kiss with your eyes open.. Extend your foreplay time... considerably. Play truth or dare but keep your questions steered towards the topic at hand. Make love by only candlelight. Try ice... Spend $100 on lingerie. Take a bath or shower together. Write a sensual love story about you and your partner. Leave it for them to read. Use whipped cream... Stay the night at a hotel with a hot tub. Make it a point to touch every inch of your lover's body. Learn more about aphrodisiacs. Give your love a sensual massage. Buy a few love making technique books and read them together. Compliment your love on how they look and while making love. Do a strip dance for them. Spend a day teasing your partner. Make love somewhere other than your home. Experiment with different types of kisses. When your love comes home, take control and make love to them right there. Share a bottle of champagne while laying on blanket in your backyard looking at the stars. Wash your partner. Leave hidden sensually, teasing notes where they will find them. Experiment with food during foreplay. Kiss every part of their body. Christen each room by making love in a new room every night. Try one new thing in the bedroom a week. Pick up your lover wearing only a trench coat. Fix your hair, makeup, etc. Go to bed with only a pair of high heels on.